Sometimes we drop the box

Published 12:00 am Friday, February 13, 2004

From the Heart – Ronny Keller Michel

I vividly remember February 14, 2002. Victoria’s seven-year-old eyes slowly scanned the Valentine loots scattered on the kitchen table. Pushing aside treat-filled plastic bags, small white envelopes that bore her name, and the wrappings of the candy that didn’t survive the ride home, she reached for the large, red, heart box.

“And who is this for?” she asked, her voice filled with hope that she was the intended recipient.

“Sorry. I bought it for your dad,” I replied while thinking that Victoria’s choice of the Whitman sampler was pretty impressive.

“Can I open it?” she boldly questioned.

“Well… okay,” I answered after deciding that Michael wouldn’t mind. By the time he returned home from his business trip, he’d barely noticed it anyway. I continued, “Just don’t lose the little map inside. It lets you know where each type of candy is located.”

My husband does not like surprises. With regards to candy and to life, he wants to know what’s in store for him before he sinks his teeth into it.

“Okay, I won’t lose it,” she happily promised as I left the kitchen.

Only moments after she had ripped the cellophane from the candy that it had been protecting, Victoria found me in the study. Her solemn expression informed me that her next words had been carefully chosen.

“I didn’t lose the map”, she quietly began, “but I dropped the box and all the candy fell out and I don’t know where it belongs.”

In her defense, I never told her not to drop the candy. I only asked her to guard the map. She followed me into the kitchen where we began to pick up the candy. The bounty of strewn sweets began to dwindle as we attempted to return each piece to its proper place. It was a difficult task, except for the cashews. It’s easy to spot a nut, even when it is covered in chocolate and trying to masquerade as a candy.

And so it is with life…

Sometimes we drop the box. The pieces of our lives are then in disarray and suddenly we don’t know where anything belongs. Spouses, children, jobs, ministries, hobbies, unspoken dreams, friends, and even nutty relatives(I can’t believe I wrote that!) viciously vie for our attention. They all start to look the same. Well, except for the nuts. They’re easy to spot, even when they try to masquerade as something sweet. Keeping my priorities in order is an ongoing task for me. I am so grateful that my God takes those sweet, but scattered portions of my life and returns them to their proper place. Even the nuts!